Putting Yourself First
Putting Yourself First Isn’t Selfish—It’s Sacred
There’s a quiet revolution happening among women—one that doesn’t always make noise but transforms lives at their very core. It's the decision to put yourself first. Not from a place of ego or entitlement, but from deep, aligned self-love.
As a feminine energy and relationship coach, I see it time and time again: women giving until they’re empty. They nurture, they heal, they show up—but often forget to do the same for themselves.
Let me gently remind you of something sacred:
You are not here to abandon yourself in the name of love.
The Truth About Feminine Energy
True feminine energy is magnetic. It flows, it receives, it radiates. But when you’re constantly over-giving or people-pleasing, your energy becomes depleted. You become disconnected—from your body, your intuition, and your desires.
When you put yourself first, you’re not shutting others out—you’re inviting them to meet you in a higher space. One where love isn’t a transaction, but a reflection of your inner wholeness.
What It Really Means to Put Yourself First
Putting yourself first isn’t about bubble baths and spa days—though those are beautiful rituals of self-love. It’s about boundaries. It’s about saying no without guilt. It’s about asking, every day:
“What do I need right now?”
“What would feel nourishing for me in this moment?”
It’s about choosing relationships, careers, and environments that feed your soul instead of drain your light.
And most importantly? It’s about re-learning how to trust yourself.
Why It Matters in Love
When you center yourself, your relationships shift. You stop attracting partners who take more than they give. You stop performing in love. You start showing up in your fullness, and from that place—love becomes easeful, not effortful.
You no longer settle. You no longer chase. You become the woman who is already home within herself, and that energy? It draws in everything aligned with your highest self.
How to Begin
If you’ve spent years putting others first, it may feel uncomfortable to change. That’s okay. Start small.
Wake up 15 minutes earlier to be with yourself.
Practice saying no without explanation.
Do one thing each day that’s purely for you.
Surround yourself with other women who are reclaiming their power, too.
Putting yourself first is a practice—a devotional one. And with each small step, you’ll feel the shift. You’ll come home to your body. You’ll remember your worth.
And from that place, everything in your life begins to align.